What do you do when the secretary says that she isn't allowed to give the agent a card that I left for him?

I went to the place where I went on Valentine's day to give the people Easter cards and eggs. I also left a Easter card on the secretaries desk for the sales insurance agent that I love and she told me on Friday when I was there that she had to throw the card away and she is not allowed to give the agent anything from me any more.

What do you do when the secretary says that she isn't allowed to give the agent a card that I left for him?
Well you may love him but the feeling is not mutual. He's taken, married or not. You asked the secretary to pass on something personal, not business. She had a right to refuse you. However, she tried and the card/gift was rejected by the object of your affection. All men are not fair game and you have stepped over the line. His rejection of your gift was proof of that.





It is so unfortunate...but I've seen many women of the younger generation who lack the knowledge needed to work in a business atmosphere as concerns morality or social graces for that matter. They are all directed by their feelings without respect to the feelings of others. Lots of people are attractive...it does not mean you can inject yourself into their life.
Reply:do you go in there often? maybe she is jealous or she is seeing him!! Maybe you should give him your cards to his face instead of leaving them with her!
Reply:This is a bit confusing. Maybe she is jealous. Or just a b***h. Or maybe he is a jerk. Or maybe he has a jealous wife. Or maybe it's a fear of stalking or some other weird thing. I say move on and count your lucky stars that you dont need to give him any more cards. That will save you some money to spend on yourself instead of others that dont apreciate it.
Reply:If he is in a relationship that has lated 20 years, what is your place in his life? What what you do is quit giving her things to give him He has probably told the secretary to not accept things that you want to leave there with her. You sound troubled.
Reply:Love is a two way street. You cant be "in love" with guy, you are attracted to him.





Find another boyfriend.





He is as good as married. Leave him alone!





RS
Reply:There's not too much that you can do if he won't accept it. Maybe it's an office policy or a personal policy, but either way he won't take it, so that's it.
Reply:For gods sake, he is trying to tell you to buz off..stay away or you could be arrested for stalking
Reply:She was instructed to say that by the agent and/or it could be office policy that was ignored before. Unless you have a 'history' with this agent it appears he does not share your feelings. Try dating others and check back occasionally (not often) to see if ou ccan find out anything.